Archive for March 22nd, 2016
A formerly homeless man said goodbye earlier this month to a dog who gave his life some purpose.
Raymond Goynes was living in a refrigerator box on the streets of New York when he first met Sonja, a wheaten terrier, in 2005.
He’d spent decades on the streets by then, but he’d kicked his cocaine habit a few year’s earlier and was doing odd jobs to help buy food.
He’d regularly see Sonja being taken for a walk and asked her owner, more than once, if he could help with that.
“After I got Sonja, he saw various people walking her when I was at work,” Mary Kilty told the New York Times. “He said to me, ‘I can walk your dog.’ He said this to me several times and eventually I thought why not give it a try, because he clearly needed some income and support.”
Goynes began taking Sonja for two-hour walks to and around Central Park on Saturday mornings.
“It helped me get myself together,” Goynes said. “It keeps you from messing around, doing other things bad. ‘I got a dog-walking job, I’ve got to maintain.'”
“… She helped me, I helped her,” he added.
Goynes found a permanent home in 2007 — a small room in a building on East 28th Street run by the nonprofit supportive-housing provider now known as Breaking Ground.
He continued to walk Sonja on weekends, and would house-sit the dog, sometimes for weeks at a time, in Kilty’s penthouse.
“He was so reliable and so good, and she loved him so much,” Kilty said.
Last spring, Sonja, 11, began a slow decline due to cancer.
“If there was anything I could do to help her stay up … Sonja, get up, come on, get up.”
He held her paw, gazed into her eyes and then left so Kilty could spend some private moments with Sonja before a veterinarian arrived to give her a lethal injection.
Kilty said Goynes asked for Sonja’s tags, so he can wear them on a necklace.
She honored that request, but says she’s not ready to grant his second one.
“He keeps asking me when I’m going to get another dog, which I don’t think I’m going to do quite yet.”
(Photos: Nicole Bengiveno / The New York Times)
Posted by John Woestendiek March 22nd, 2016 under Muttsblog.
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